|English: "How dare I, Mrs Reed?|
How dare I? Because it is the truth."
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My first moral principle is clear and firm: never do anything to purposely hurt anyone. Just like Jane Eyre, I learned kindness through my hardship: When I was bullied during my childhood, the pain I felt when I was savagely beaten, only "inspired" me to make resolution, that I would never exert the same kind of pain to any other persons. Yes, I learned that before I heard the name of Jesus Christ, or Buddha, or any other "Saint"'s voice. And I can proudly say that in my life I've never done anything purposely hurt anyone.
So does this mean that I never did anything hurt anyone? Unfortunately, that's not the case. But why and how? Because I've offended people simply by thinking differently, or, by stating what I thought. So, does this mean I should never speak anything that I know they would sound offensive to someone, because it's my first principle to not hurt anyone? My answer is again clear and firm: No. Why "no"? Because there is a difference between two kinds of offenses (of course I don't mean there are only two kinds).
The difference I found is, offenses done for the purpose of hurting others, should be considered as entirely immoral, but "offenses" done for the purpose of reasoning, finding truth of life (no absolute truth, of course), questioning existing conventions, etc., should be considered entirely moral and innocent. Further more, under the second situation, those who feel offended should ask themselves: why do I feel offended by just hearing difference voices?
Yes, humans are complicated. And just because we all offended each others once a while, more or less, doesn't mean we are equally guilty.